Friday, November 19, 2010

The talk

Thanks for the suggestions. We talked a little more....and he is scared. He didn't say those exact words but he did state that he didn't want to see me go through all the doctor appointments, bedrest, and hospital stay which we have done in the past. He is concerned that I am not able to deal with the drama and loss of another baby...closing the door on our future biological child, is for more hurtful...and believe me I KNOW HURT


  1. I am glad you guys talked so that you each can see the others perspective. Praying for you T!

  2. I am glad that you had a chance to talk with him. I hope this brings about steps in moving forward and I that it helps him in not giving up. I know it's difficult for men b/c they often time don't know what to do for us to make it better. There isn't really much they can do in the way that they want. They can't stop the hurt and pain all they can do is be there to help us through. it's a rocky road to say the least.